Starting university is an exciting experience, but it can also feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to making new friends. For many Moi University students, the transition from high school to campus life means meeting people from different backgrounds and adjusting to a new social environment. In this guide, we’ll explore practical tips on how to make meaningful friendships that will enrich your university experience.

1. Be Open and Approachable

One of the most important aspects of making friends is being open to new people and experiences. University is a melting pot of diverse personalities, and the first step to forming connections is to be approachable.

• Smile and be friendly: A simple smile can go a long way in breaking the ice.
• Start with a greeting: Saying "hi" to classmates or people you sit next to in lectures can initiate conversations.
• Be interested in others: Ask people about their background, hobbies, or courses. People appreciate when someone takes an interest in them.

2. Join Clubs and Societies

Moi University offers a wide range of clubs and societies for students with different interests. Whether you're into sports, debating, music, or volunteering, there’s a group for you. I'll talk more in detail about the clubs in Moi University in a different article.

• Attend orientation week: This is where most first-year students meet their initial friends. Don’t miss it!
• Participate in campus events: These gatherings create a relaxed atmosphere where you can interact with people you might not see every day.
• Cultural nights and parties: Such events can be a great way to learn about different cultures while making friends in a casual setting. Campus parties on the other hand tend to be very wild, but it's a great place for meeting new people.

4. Form Study Groups

This may sound cliche but don't forget that you came to campus to study. Studying with your classmates can be a great way to get to know them better. Study groups allow you to bond over common academic goals and help each other succeed.

• Invite classmates to study together: Suggest forming a study group after class or before exams.
• Help each other out: Sharing notes, explaining concepts, and collaborating on assignments can strengthen the group dynamic.
• Balanced focus: While the group’s main purpose is studying, taking short breaks to chat can foster personal connections.

5. Take Advantage of Shared Spaces

Campus life revolves around shared spaces like cafeterias, libraries, common rooms, and hostels. These areas offer opportunities for casual interactions with fellow students.

• Strike up conversations: In places like the cafeteria or library, you’ll often see familiar faces. Don't hesitate to start a conversation.
• Participate in hostel activities: If you live in a hostel, get involved in group activities or casual hangouts in the common areas
• Be a regular: Frequenting certain spots on campus can make it easier to meet the same people over time and build friendships

6. Use Social Media and Campus Platforms

In today’s world, digital connections often complement real-life interactions. Platforms like WhatsApp, Facebook groups, or even university forums can help you stay connected with new friends and expand your network.

• Join campus WhatsApp groups: These platforms often serve as a place to meet others, share resources, or organize group activities.
• Keep in touch online: If you meet someone in person, follow up by adding them on social media. It helps sustain connections.
• Share useful information: Being helpful and active online can make you a valuable part of your campus community.

Making friends at Moi University doesn’t have to be daunting. By staying open to new experiences, joining campus activities, and being proactive in engaging with others, you’ll find yourself forming meaningful friendships that will last well beyond your university years. Remember, everyone is in the same boat and looking to make connections, so don’t be afraid to take the first step!